{"id":3439,"date":"2016-04-18T11:52:44","date_gmt":"2016-04-18T15:52:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/?p=3439"},"modified":"2022-08-04T09:54:41","modified_gmt":"2022-08-04T13:54:41","slug":"frantic-motherhood","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/frantic-motherhood\/","title":{"rendered":"Frantic Motherhood, Overwhelm, Burnout, and Busy Addiction"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Motherhood &#8211; the state of being a mother; we understand that meaning.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Frantic. Even the word feels riddled with anxiety.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">fran\u00b7tic<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u02c8fran(t)ik\/<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">adjective<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">wild or distraught with fear, anxiety, or other emotion.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;she was <\/span><b>frantic with<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> worry&#8221;<\/span><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td>\n<ol>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">synonyms:<\/span><\/i><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/td><td>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">panic-stricken, panicky, beside oneself, at one's wits' end, distraught, overwrought, worked up, agitated, distressed; <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td>&nbsp;<\/td><td>&nbsp;<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">conducted in a hurried, excited, and chaotic way, typically because of the need to act quickly.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;frantic attempts to resuscitate the girl&#8221;<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes I just feel frantic. Like it\u2019s never enough. There\u2019s always a need for more and a pull towards more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>*see the update at the bottom of this post 8\/4\/2022<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I need to do more and be more. I need more equipment, more tools, more help. I have some things I don\u2019t want MORE of\u2026 &nbsp;More laundry, more dishes, more schoolwork, more chores, more errands\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"767\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-1024x767.jpg\" alt=\"paperwork-315083_1280\" class=\"wp-image-3441\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-768x575.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-800x600.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-1024x767.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280-1200x900.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/paperwork-315083_1280.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">In a frantic motherhood there's always a need for more<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then there are the things I <em>want to get to<\/em> and <strong>fear<\/strong> I never will\u2026 More books to read, more information to be shared, more of my memories to write down, more stories to tell, more adventures to go on.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Still&#8230; there is one thing there never seems to be \u201cMORE\u201d of <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">in the sense that there\u2019s never enough of it<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, that is TIME. I feel frantic about running out of time. Maybe because I\u2019m still learning to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/your-fabulous-forties\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Rock my 40s<\/a>,<\/span> and I see my children growing up, moving on\u2026 I often feel frantic to utilize the time I have left with the ones <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">still under my roof.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"DSC00787\" class=\"wp-image-3450\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-300x400.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-600x800.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-800x1067.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00787-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The ones under my roof&#8230;Frantically keeping up with their school work\u2026 I <\/span>love teaching my children everything except math, which we are now frantically trying to catch up on because we all dislike the subject, the curriculum, and the worksheets\u2026 and my teenager,<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> who will be graduating next year! Frantic school days&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Wait a minute, but I even feel frantic on the weekend\u2026 I\u2019m frantically trying to fit everything in. This weekend I looked at my Facebook feed and saw all the fun everyone was having; suddenly, my plan to just catch up and do some knitting seemed like a waste of a perfectly sunny weekend. I started wondering what we \u201c<em>should<\/em>\u201d do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I spent about half the morning frantically racking my brain, wondering how to improve the weekend. I spent the second half of the day in complete indecision, and I never got around to \u201ccatching up\u201d on my knitting. I never got around to relaxing!<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_2905\" class=\"wp-image-3443\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-500x500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-800x800.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_2905-2048x2048.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then there's parenting&#8230; correcting, guiding, teaching&#8230;\u201cMaybe I\u2019ve simply become a frantic person,\u201d I think as I catch myself, mid-sentence, hands frantically gesturing, as I explain the latest child-related dilemma<\/span> to my husband. At the same time,<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> he calmly stares at me with <strong>zero emotion on his stolid face<\/strong>. <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">How does he do that?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My husband is NEVER frantic. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then I'm frantically trying to get the house caught up\u2026 I mean, it\u2019s not a complete pigsty<\/span> but it does look like we live here! &nbsp;I set my schedule for the most part; I place these demands on myself. My husband has never complained about dust, dishes or laundry. So why do I feel frantic about this area? My floors are clean, and we<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> have clothes to wear\u2026 I haven\u2019t cleaned the windows in quite a while&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"655\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-1024x655.jpg\" alt=\"laundry\" class=\"wp-image-3442\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-300x192.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-600x384.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-768x492.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-800x512.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-1024x655.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry-1536x983.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/laundry.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My desk is calling frantically to me&#8230; as I try to help everyone who needs or wants my help, <\/span>create a menu, write down that recipe, share what I\u2019ve learned\u2026 All of these are good and great things that I passionately love to do. However, it's not so great and good when I do them from a place of frenzied frantic feelings<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Feeling frozen in my frantic feelings, I wonder to myself, \u201c<em>What am I missing out on by allowing these frantic feelings to rule my life?<\/em>\u201d Then I realize what causes this feeling. It is frantic's first cousin\u2026 <strong>FEAR<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image size-full wp-image-3444\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"336\" height=\"603\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3165.jpg\" alt=\"Fear of Missing Out\" class=\"wp-image-3444\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3165-300x538.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3165.jpg 336w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 336px) 100vw, 336px\" \/><figcaption>I'm afraid of missing out<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I start to feel frantic because I\u2019m <\/span><a href=\"http:\/\/www.noordinarydays.com\/2014\/10\/23\/stop-feeling-frantic-change-pace\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">afraid<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Afraid I\u2019ll miss out on something, afraid the children are growing up too fast, and I won't teach them all I want them to know, afraid I won't spend enough time with them&#8230;afraid I will make a mistake, afraid I will let someone down, someone who is counting on me\u2026 my kids, my family, my friends&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Then amid my fears my husband sends me a text:<\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: I don\u2019t know exactly what all of you did yesterday,<\/span> but the children said it was an awesome day \ud83d\ude42 So<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> wish you another awesome day together<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me: We mostly just hung around at home. I think the fun for them is when we just relax and I\u2019m not working all day\u2026 pretty rare. Plus I ordered take-out<\/span> instead of cooking and making a mess and we ate in the living room\u2026on the floor while watching a movie.<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>Him: Time spent with us where they have our undivided attention is what they like most I think<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Me: *no response*<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Him: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If this gives you perspective on what they thought of the day &#8211; very first words out of Harmon this morning &#8211; \u201cdo you think when you get to heaven you get to repeat some of your favorite days?\u201d &nbsp;He was referring to yesterday ?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"My reason for unwinding. Pausing, resetting.\" class=\"wp-image-3445\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-500x375.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-600x450.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-800x600.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-1200x900.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/DSC00741-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And I realize it\u2019s time to press pause, hit the RESET button, take a deep breath and focus on what\u2019s important. Focus on my family, my Jesus, and what matters.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">More and more,<\/span> I realize that I tend to overload my To-Do list and then frantically try to check off every item on the list. Yet, I know that even my best effort to save myself will be frantic and futile. That is when I remember that I must return to resting in God,<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> and He will do the saving, and in quietness and trust, the <strong>Lord<\/strong> will give me strength. <strong>He<\/strong> gives me strength.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img fetchpriority=\"low\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\"  src=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_3013\" class=\"wp-image-3446\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-80x80.jpg 80w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-500x500.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-800x800.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-1536x1536.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.thatorganicmom.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/IMG_3013-2048x2048.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>What my children like best is when I'm just with them. They don't care if I don't have big plans for the weekend. They just want me to <strong>rest<\/strong> with them. It's not enough for me to just let them off the hook&#8230; they want me not to be <strong>FRANTIC<\/strong>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For thus saith the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel; In returning and <strong>rest<\/strong> shall ye be saved; in quietness and in confidence shall be your strength: and ye would not. Isaiah 30:15. Later in <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Isaiah 41:<\/span>10 says<b>, \u201c <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will <strong>strengthen<\/strong> thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I always felt guilty if my mom or dad came home and I was doing nothing. I carried that into my adulthood, I never wanted my husband to see me doing &#8220;nothing,&#8221; but more and more, I realize that IS what he wants for me. To rest. And that is what My Father wants me to do sometimes too!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Doing is good, but Resting is better.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>*edited to add (November 2017) that sometimes, when I slip back into my frantic motherhood, my children will say, &#8220;<em>mom can we have a day where you just sit and knit<\/em>?&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It's a reminder that I've been doing too much and &#8220;being too busy,&#8221; which is not always a good thing. Because our children love us, they want to see us enjoying the good things in life; and because they are children, they know &#8220;play time&#8221; is essential! So take a hint from your kids and go play!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do you ever feel frantic? If so, how do you unwind those frantic feelings?<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Update 2022 &#8211; Being too Busy and Busy Addiction<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It is so easy to slip back into old bad habits, especially when you tie so much of your self-worth to your productivity. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether working from home for an employer or myself, I put unreasonable expectations on my shoulders. You may have experienced the same. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We've been told we can have it all for years, but can we? Or perhaps the question should be, do we really <em>want<\/em> it all? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After a conversation with my daughter, I realized I was always busy, forever rushing wherever I was going. The casual chat we had made me stop to question myself and why I constantly felt the overwhelming need to do everything and get it all done to the extent that I often sacrificed taking care of myself. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I never give up sleep, but I did skip exercise and rest or downtime to keep everything clean and accomplish everything I wanted to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My big realization was that I tie &#8220;productivity&#8221; to self-worth. Getting a lot done was a badge I wore proudly. Being &#8220;super mom&#8221; was a title I wanted and had worn for years. So I decided to slow down and enjoy whatever I was doing and try to let go of some stuff. (Try. 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